15+
Years in the work
3,000+
Fathers equipped
200+
Fathers coached
What men say before they find this
The men who find this work usually describe it the same way. See if any of these land.
"I'm good at my job. I know how to lead. But I get home and it's almost like I forget everything I know."
"I care — and yet it's still not working."
"My wife is carrying too much. She needs more from me, and we both know it."
"My kids are getting the leftover version of me at night."
"I've read the books. Done the retreats. Tried the routines. Nothing sticks."
Every other attempt was either purely information-based or inspiration-based. This is built differently. It deconstructs what's holding you back and installs a framework you can actually live from.
This won't work for you if…
- ✕You are not married
- ✕You think all you need to do is provide money for your family
- ✕You've worked with other people and “they” were always the problem
- ✕You want to build your own kingdom rather than seek God's
But if you…
- ▸Have a family that relies on you
- ▸Enjoy building businesses or developing a thriving career
- ▸Desire God's best for your family
- ▸Want to seek first the kingdom but struggle to know how to do that through the family
- ▸Wish you had better systems to make the home better
- ▸Know that you could grow and improve personally
…this could be the year things get exciting.
The 8-Week Program
Two phases. One complete transformation.
Establish the Foundation
Mind Renewal System
A Biblical approach to transformation made tactical and practical so you stop being governed by old belief patterns and start leading from what is actually true.
Family Compass
A cohesive 30-year vision, short-term vision, mission statement, core values, and household strategy so your family has a direction you received from God — not a default you coasted into.
Weekly Leadership Blueprint
A set of key rhythms that help you live out your role as leader, so you stop just leading the home when you 'get a minute' and build a repeatable cadence your family can actually feel and be blessed by.
Fatherhood Coaching Framework
A clear repeatable system that can be applied across a wide range of scenarios so you can finally train, develop, and disciple your kids intentionally instead of just reacting to them.
Sustain and Sanctify
Sustainable Capacity
A vision-aligned approach to health, fitness, food, and sleep so your leadership at home does not depend on whether you have any energy left after work.
Energy Anchors
Simple 5+ minute habits so you have non-negotiable daily anchors that hold your personal foundation, vibrancy, and faith in place.
Word-Centered Leadership
A Biblical framework for how to live out the scriptures in your leadership so that the Word stops being something occasionally applied, and becomes something you naturally lead from.
Contending Prayer System
A simple and sustainable way to develop a culture of prayer, no matter how much you've failed at this in the past, so that prayer becomes a real leadership tool in your household — not a vague spiritual intention.
Intimacy With Jesus Pathway
A time-honored approach to growing closer with The Lord so your relationship with Him actually becomes the engine and the fuel of your household leadership, not just a theory you give lip service to but never experience.
What men experience
These are the things that yield increasing fruit in your kids as they grow — and that you and your wife experience in increasing measure for years to come.
"My wife trusts me to lead now. She used to feel like she had to solve things herself. She doesn't do that anymore. She brings things to me."
— Drew R.
"In the past two months: I read a chapter of the Bible every day, started eating healthy, we do the marriage meeting, I became an elder at my church, led a work conference for the first time, and officiated a wedding."
— Luke W.
"I always appreciated Sabbath rest but never practiced it. I felt like if I stopped, someone would pass me in business. Now it feels okay to actually rest."
— Evan M.
"Working with Chris was the bridge between knowing truth and living it. He called out patterns that others tiptoed around, helped me hear God's voice with more clarity, and gave me frameworks to attack my life with presence and purpose. I stopped chasing intensity and started building consistency. I can lead my wife and son well, as more of the man God intended me to be."
— Aaron B.
For the wives
"It is not good that man should be alone."
My wife, Justine — mother of six, homeschooling mom, and partner in this work — holds monthly coaching calls specifically for the wives of men enrolled in the program. Because this isn't just about the man. It's about the household. She brings her own experience, wisdom, and perspective to equip wives to lead alongside their husbands.
"We don't just equip the father. We equip the household. When both spouses are moving in the same direction, everything accelerates. The marriage deepens, the children feel it, and the home becomes what it was always meant to be."
About Chris Cirullo
Chris developed the Reforming Fatherhood framework as a married father of six — building simultaneously in SaaS, ministry, and household business. He didn't find a model that worked for men who were serious about both their external mission and their family. So he built one. This is the result of fifteen years of study, practice, failure, and refinement — distilled into a system that actually transfers.
- ▸US Army Ranger, 2/75th Ranger Regiment
- ▸Venture-backed SaaS leader
- ▸Men's ministry leader
- ▸Married, father of six
- ▸15+ years in the work
The Guarantee
"If you fully engage, do the work, and by the end of 8 weeks your leadership at home still feels vague, inconsistent, or unclear — I will keep working with you for free until it clicks."
So if this is an area you know needs to grow, there's no real risk to getting started — is there?
Your Diagnostic Session
The next step is discerning what your greatest obstacle is.
Grab a call with Chris and find the root of what's making it hardest for you to lead as well as you want to at home. We only take 4 men per coaching group and this is a required step to discern if you're a good fit and if what we offer can actually help you.
Not ready to book a call? Start by mapping your family's direction and finding your gaps with the Finish Well tool.